They say love is blind. I am no longer wearing those blinders. On Saturday, I got fed up with more than a decade of misery and told Brian to get out. He moved in with his dad and took Aya with him as a condition of getting out of my life.
Letting him take Aya with him was the most painful thing I’ve ever had to do. Not asking him to come back was the second most painful. But the damage is done, the bridges are burnt, and it’s over. In his absence, I remembered how long I have been miserable, how I have been willing to go to any length to get away from him and find a way out of my unhappiness, and how he didn’t give a damn.
What we had is not what marriage is supposed to be.
<3 We’re thinking about you.
All the support in the world on this. I remember leaving my ex-husband as a difficult time, and yet the best thing I ever did. The additional difficulty of Brian taking Aya with him is not something I can imagine, so I will just say sending positive vibes.
First of all, take it easy,ease pain and refresh yourself! All I can say is that you’ve got a beautiful and lovely daughter. You know that you need to understand the issues before you make any major decisions. I wish you all the best and hope that all your dreams come true and hope that it gets better soon. Be well!